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Frequently Asked Questions

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Does Whispering Pines close during autumn and
winter?
No. Whispering Pines is open twelve months a year.
Is nudity mandatory?
The only area on the property where nudity is required is in the
pool and hot tub area. All other areas are clothing optional.
Are you situated on
the ocean or do you have an ocean front beach?
No. We are eleven (11) miles inland from the ocean.
How do I apply for
membership in Whispering Pines? You must be of good
reputation and moral character with no felony convictions. You may
be a couple (male/female) or a single. You must be 21 years of age
or older with a photo ID. References and/or a background check may
be required. Get in touch with the office and request an application
for a membership application. All requests for a membership application must be
made either in person or in writing or you can
download an application. Fill out the application
completely and return it to the office. Please allow up to 5
business days from the date of our receipt for your application to
be processed. Payment of annual membership dues will be required
upon approval. Annual dues are $425.00 couple or single. Whispering
Pines reserves the right to decline any application that we feel is not in the best interests of
Whispering Pines.
Membership Application
Whispering Pines, LLC
1114 Sun Street
Ocean Isle Beach, NC 28469
910-287-6404
What should I bring with me when I visit?
A towel is probably the most important item. It is used for a
multitude of reasons. You should always sit on it whenever you sit
on a chair or lounge. This is not only for personal hygiene, but
also out of courtesy to others. You can use it to cover up with if
you get too much sun on your shoulders, to dry off with after using
the pool, sauna, or spa; and to lie on. A pair of sandals or
comfortable casual shoes or thongs for walking, sunscreen, lotion,
sunglasses and of course clothes to wear if it gets cool.
What are the
office hours?
9 am - 6 pm 7 days
When can I check in?
Check in time is 2 PM and check out time is 12 noon. Arrivals
earlier than 2 PM may check in if there is a rental unit, RV space
or campsite available.
What is Nude Recreation?
Nude Recreation is a form of stress relief as well as a
fantastic way to enjoy daily living, holidays, weekends, and
vacations. It is also a very good way to get a "seamless" tan.
Why do people choose nude recreation?
There are as many different reasons for choosing nude recreation
as there are different types of people and recreational choices.
People who enjoy being nude are diverse in age and profession.
Without the restrictions of clothing, we enjoy a sense of well being
while participating in activities like swimming, hiking, volleyball,
boating, tennis, and socializing.
Will I feel self conscious being nude?
After the first 10 minutes, most people begin to feel very
comfortable. In the friendly, accepting atmosphere of a club you may
soon find any self consciousness melting away. Most people say "I
feel so relaxed! I wish I'd done this years ago."
Is there any way I can find out if I want to
go nude without actually going to a nudist resort?
Sure. Try walking around your home nude, sleeping in the nude,
doing your housework in the nude. Even watch TV while you are nude.
Millions of people do just those things on a daily basis. Once you
feel comfortable then it is time to try it around other people. See
"The First Timers Guide
To Nudism"
Where can I find places to go that I can be
legally nude?
There are over 240 nudist resorts in the United States, not
counting nude beaches. For a state by state list of nudist resorts
and nude beaches see
"Places
To Go Nude "
I am a woman and I have concerns about my
safety and other issues. Where can I find information that will help
me?
Women have unique concerns. You can find all the information you
will need on women's concerns at
"Women's
Issues With Nudity "
and also "Not
For Women Only "
Is there a woman's perspective on becoming
involved in socialized nudism?
Of course. See
"So
Your Partner Is Interested In Nudism?
"
What is the difference between a naturist and
a nudist?
There is little difference in the two terms. Most "nudists" tend
to participate in social nudity via resorts, camps, and other
similar settings, and they tend to practice social nudity for its
own sake. "Naturist's" tend to be more active in their pursuit
making sure that clothing-optional recreation is always available.
Some naturist's/nudists do not participate in social nudity, and
some do not have or desire to have any "political" associations with
organized naturist/nudist groups. For a more defined definition of a
nudist see
"What
Is A Nudist? "
What if I met
someone in the textile world that I had known in a nudist club and
he or she informed on me in front of others? I would be mortified!
We would respectfully suggest that neither one of you are nudists
or ever have been. Both of you just like to idea of walking around
without clothes. Lot's of people do. But if you are that
afraid that someone will embarrass or humiliate you,
don't even think about socialized nudism until you have educated
yourself on the proper nudist perspective and have resolved within
yourself that shame and embarrassment by others are not part of your
life. True nudists are never embarrassed nor go for shock value in
front of other people. Part of the freedom of socialized nudism is
not only the freedom of the body but also freedom of the mind!
Without one you cannot have the other.
What if I meet someone at a nudist resort that
I know?
If you do meet someone you know, they are there for the same
reason you are, and they will be just as surprised to see you there,
and will think nothing about it. Just remember, there is nothing
wrong in being nude.
How do children fit in at nudist resorts?
Children participate at nudist clubs and resorts as they do in
any other family environment. They are the ones who stand to gain
the most from nude recreation because of the positive influences on
their psychological development. Many mental health professionals
agree that family nudity promotes a healthy self-concept during the
formative years.
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Do I have to be a member to get into a nudist
resort?
No, not at most resorts. Either visit their web site or call first before visiting
a club in order to find out their particular policy.
Does nudism create sexual arousal?
Being nude is not itself inherently sexual. Nudists at a park or
club are participating in recreational activities. Equating nudism
with sex is a common misconception that may stem from the generally
held belief that people are only nude during bathing and sex. Nudism
is simply about enjoying life naturally and accepting the human body
for what it is.
What if I (a male) get an erection?
This problem occurs far less frequently than you might think.
Nude recreation is not a sexual situation for participants. If you
get an erection at a nude beach or other social nude setting,
naturist's generally yield a bit of elbow room to avoid making you
feel uncomfortable; you should use your judgment to avoid making
them feel uncomfortable. If necessary, take a swim or roll over for
a short while or temporarily cover up with your towel. In any case,
just use common sense and be considerate.
What if I (a female) am menstruating?
Again, this is a natural occurrence and it is one of the
realities of the body with which women have to deal. If a woman is
comfortable with one, a tampon is the simplest method of dealing
with that time of month. If an external conveyance is preferred then
she would wear shorts or bikini bottoms. For the most part, a woman
should use what she feels is less obtrusive for her personally.
Others aren't going to notice or object.
Will people stare at me?
No. Nudists do not have a need, or the desire, to stare at
others. Basically we are all the same and there is nothing to stare
at.
Will I feel uncomfortable being around naked
people?
Maybe for the first few minutes, but then you will forget that
you are without clothes. Many people decide to get nude faster than
they planned because they felt uncomfortable being the only clothed
person around.
Are nudist resorts only for single people?
On the contrary. You will find single people, married people,
couples, and many children at nudist parks. They come from all walks
of life, all ethnic origins, all religions, and from all
occupations. However, many resorts unfairly discriminate against
single males and/or impose "gender quotas" against single males
while readily admitting single females with no gender quota. If you
are a single male check the resort's policy.
If there is nothing wrong with being nude, why
has it been kept a secret so long?
It has not been kept a secret. Social nudism started in the US
in 1929. It was brought to the US from Germany where nudism has been
accepted for centuries. Europe has always accepted nudists and
thinks nothing of it. But in the United States where people think
they are so cool and "with it" most are still harboring inhibitions
about the nude human body.
Why is organized nudism associated with sex?
It isn't, not to genuine nudists. Only those who are not genuine
nudists and those who prefer to remain ignorant on legitimate nudism
view nudity as sexually related. It is very common to assume that
men associate nudity with sex while as many women, if not more, also
think that legitimate organized nudism is associated with sex.
Such people are not genuine nudists.
Isn't it wrong to have kids see you nude?
Why would it be wrong? If it is simple nudity without sexual
connotations, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact it
has been proven that children who are nudists have many less
hang-ups about sexuality and growing up than those who lead a
"sheltered" life. If parents stopped trying to hide simple nudity
from their children there would be a better understanding and more
open communication between parents and children. Too often children
are uptight about the changes taking place within them and are
afraid to talk about it because they feel it is taboo. Seeing each
other nude tends to break down those barriers and makes it easier to
speak about one's feelings without fear.
Don't nudist kids experiment a lot seeing
others nude?
No, in fact there is less experimenting in the nudist
environment than in the textile environment because children being
raised as nudists have no need to peek, check others out or to play
doctor because they see it all without having it hidden. The mystery
is not there. It is really a healthy way to raise children. They
have more respect for each other, and for everyone else. They do not
snicker or giggle when they see a nude body like a lot of kids do.
My husband wants me to try it, but I think
that he would spend all of his time looking at other women.
If he wants to try nude recreation
with you, he is proud of you and wants you at his side.
What
do I do if someone "hits" on me? (Woman) Isn't that common?
No, it is not common at all. It rarely happens, and if by chance
it does, all you have to do is report it to the office and steps
will be taken to insure that it does not happen again. That type of
behavior is not tolerated among singles or couples and will cause
you to be permanently evicted.
Do men walk around with erections all of the time like I have heard?
No, that is far from the truth. Erections are very uncommon
because any man that is at the park is there only for the enjoyment
of the sun and fellowship. If by chance a man gets an unexpected
erection he will cover up with a towel, roll over onto his stomach,
or otherwise hide it until it subsides. Any man flaunting an
erection will be asked to leave the grounds and not return.
My wife wants to visit a nudist resort, but I am afraid that I will
feel inferior once she sees all of the other men walking around
nude. How do I handle this?
Everyone is different in some ways, but in most ways we are all
the same. There is no reason to feel inferior because she most
likely will be looking more into the eyes of everyone she sees and
will not be paying attention to other areas. It has been said many,
many times that there is more eye contact at a nudist park than
there is in any other place. Feeling inferior about anything is
nothing but emotional insecurity.
What is the best age to bring children to a nudist type place?
Any age is ideal. Probably the only time that it may be
difficult for some kids is just at the time they are entering
puberty. It all depends on how open you are with your children.
How accessible are nudist resorts?
Resorts are secure and private. Staff members are careful about
who enters their facilities. It's not easy for a nonmember to show
up unannounced and gain entrance. Thus, if someone seems to be there
for the wrong reasons the resort staff will handle the situation in
the proper fashion.
What are the ages that we will see at nudist
resorts?
You will find infants to great grandparents. There are first,
second, and even third generation nudists at lots of the resorts. Is
Nude Recreation Legal?
Yes, it is perfectly legal in areas designated as nudist
resorts, clothing optional areas and of course nude beaches. Nudist
resorts are legal in every state except Arkansas.
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Must I be nude all of the time if I go to one
of "those places"?
Common sense dictates that when the weather is not conducive to
being nude people should be dressed. Most resorts allow a person to
get undressed at his/her own pace and some are clothing optional.
Whispering Pines is clothing optional except for the hot tub and
pool area.
I do not have a "perfect" body. Will people
laugh at me?
Women are particularly enslaved and automatically conditioned to
the American notion of the perfect figure or body. No, nudists do
not laugh at others. They accept you for who you are and not for how
you look. We all have blemishes, scars, and imperfections, and there
is no such thing as a perfect "10". Tall, short, average,
overweight, young or old, it doesn't matter. Genuine nudism is about
total body acceptance no matter the condition. Think of the human
body as a package. The package can be wrapped in gold foil and
contain a lump of dirt. Then again the package can be wrapped in old
newsprint and contain a rough-cut diamond. In other words, it is
what is on the inside that counts.
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