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Policy
Behavior at Whispering Pines Nudist Resort
is based on common sense, courtesy, and individual respect. These
guidelines are a list of good manners practiced in most pleasant social
situations.
- Visitors and guests must sign in and
pay grounds fees on arrival.
- Always carry a towel to sit on. For
sanitary reasons never sit on another's towel or on a bare seat.
- No photography or videos are to be
used without the approval of the office or without someone from the
office present.
- Cell phones are no longer permitted
in the pool and hot tub areas due to the ever increasing number of
new cell phones with photo capabilities.
- No glass containers are permitted in
the pool and hot tub areas.
- Shower before entering the pool or
hot tub.
- The pool and hot tub area is the
only place where nudity is mandatory. All other locations on the
property are clothing optional.
- We do not discriminate against
single men and single women. All that is required is that you behave as
ladies and gentlemen
and display proper social graces.
- The use of bubbles in the hot tub is
not permitted. Children under 12 must be under the direct
supervision of a responsible adult while using the pool and hot tub.
- Be courteous to smokers and
non-smokers alike. This does not mean you must capitulate in total
obedience upon demand, it simply means be courteous.
- Use and/or distribution of illegal
drugs on the property is strictly prohibited. Such members and/or
guests will be permanently evicted. No exceptions.
- Pets are not allowed in the pool and
hot tub areas and should be kept at your accommodations if they are
brought for overnight stays. Please use a leash when walking your
pets and do not allow your pets to roam. All pet droppings are the
responsibility of the pet owner.
- Pets are not permitted inside the
rental units.
- Visitors and members must refrain
from using profane language, especially around children. Please
report inappropriate language to the office.
- Body piercing must be in good taste.
- Members and guests are responsible
for their own behavior at all times. Overt behavior and/or
suggestive/sexual language is inappropriate and will not be
tolerated. Persons demonstrating any kind of overt behavior or using
suggestive/sexual language will be asked to leave and permanently
lose the privilege of future visits and/or membership. Any monies
paid will not be returned.
- Parents may not leave children on
the grounds in their absence. Children should not be unsupervised at
any time. We want your children to enjoy themselves but please be
considerate. Your children must not be allowed to destroy the
grounds of Whispering Pines Resort, the property belonging to others
or annoy other guests. If you own or bring with you any type of
battery powered sport vehicle, children should not be allowed to
drive them without direct supervision of an adult at all times.
Failure to follow these guidelines will result in your being
required to leave the resort.
- Please do not wash your vehicles
(car/truck/RV/camper) while on the Grounds.
- In the highly unlikely event that
you encounter a problem or any inappropriate behavior please inform
the office immediately.
- We reserve the right to refuse
admittance or to remove from the grounds anyone whose presence we
feel is not in the best interests of Whispering Pines.
- Any violation of resort policy can
result in forfeiture of membership and/or permanent eviction from
Whispering Pines Resort. Any fees will not be refunded.
- If you have never visited Whispering
Pines or are a non member please call ahead to arrange a time of
arrival.
- Office hours are 9 am - 6 pm Monday
thru Thursday, 9 am - 10 pm Friday and Saturday and 10 am - 4 pm
Sunday.
- For late arrivals after 5 PM please
call ahead so we may assist you.
- If you have any other questions you
would like answered please feel free to by email or call Toll Free
888-LUV-2TAN or 910-287-6404. Our address is Whispering Pines Nudist
Resort 1114 Sun Street Ocean Isle Beach, NC 28469
We look forward to your visit to
Whispering Pines Nudist Resort.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does Whispering Pines close during autumn and winter?
Yes. Whispering Pines is closed from October thru
March. Our
season is from April thru September.
Is nudity mandatory?
The only area on the property where nudity is required is in the pool
and hot tub area. All other areas are clothing optional.
What should I bring with me when I visit?
A towel is probably the most important item. It is used for a
multitude of reasons. You should always sit on it whenever you sit on a
chair or lounge. This is not only for personal hygiene, but also out of
courtesy to others. You can use it to cover up with if you get too much
sun on your shoulders, to dry off with after using the pool, sauna, or
spa; and to lie on. A pair of sandals or comfortable casual shoes or
thongs for walking, sunscreen, lotion, sunglasses and of course clothes
to wear if it gets cool.
What are the office
hours?
9 am - 6 pm Monday thru Thursday
9 am - 10 pm Friday and Saturday
10 am - 4 pm Sunday
When can I check in?
Check in time is 2 PM and check out time is 12 noon. Arrivals
earlier than 2 PM may check in if there is a rental unit, RV space or
campsite available.
What is Nude Recreation?
Nude Recreation is a form of stress relief as well as a fantastic
way to enjoy daily living, holidays, weekends, and vacations. It is also
a very good way to get a "seamless" tan.
Why do people choose nude recreation?
There are as many different reasons for choosing nude recreation as
there are different types of people and recreational choices. People who
enjoy being nude are diverse in age and profession. Without the
restrictions of clothing, we enjoy a sense of well being while
participating in activities like swimming, hiking, volleyball, boating,
tennis, and socializing.
Will I feel self conscious being nude?
After the first 10 minutes, most people begin to feel very
comfortable. In the friendly, accepting atmosphere of a club you may
soon find any self consciousness melting away. Most people say "I feel
so relaxed! I wish I'd done this years ago."
Is
there any way I can find out if I want to go nude without actually going
to a nudist resort?
Sure. Try walking around your home nude, sleeping in the nude, doing
your housework in the nude. Even watch TV while you are nude. Millions
of people do just those things on a daily basis. Once you feel
comfortable then it is time to try it around other people. There is also
a complete guide as well as a short "test" to determine if you are
possible nudist material. See the tutorial on
"
Becoming a Nudist - The Complete Guide"
"
Where can I find places to go that I can be
legally nude?
There are over 240 nudist resorts in the United States, not counting
nude beaches. For a state by state list of nudist resorts and nude
beaches see
"Places
To Go Nude "
I
am a woman and I have concerns about my safety and other issues. Where
can I find information that will help me?
Women have unique concerns. You can find all the information you will
need on women's concerns at
"Womens'
Issues With Nudity "
and also "Not
For Women Only "
Is there a woman's perspective on becoming
involved in socialized nudism?
Of course. See
"So
Your Partner Is Interested In Nudism?
"
What is the difference between a naturist and a nudist?
There is little difference in the two terms. Most "nudists" tend to
participate in social nudity via resorts, camps, and other similar
settings, and they tend to practice social nudity for its own sake.
"Naturist's" tend to be more active in their pursuit making sure that
clothing-optional recreation is always available. Some
naturist's/nudists do not participate in social nudity, and some do not
have or desire to have any "political" associations with organized
naturist/nudist groups. For a more defined definition of a nudist see
"What
Is A Nudist? "
What if I met someone
in the textile world that I had known in a nudist club and he or she
informed on me in front of others? I would be mortified!
We would respectfully suggest that neither one of you are nudists or
ever have been. Both of you just like to idea of walking around without
clothes. Lot's of people do. But if you are that afraid
that someone will embarrass or humiliate you, don't even think about
socialized nudism until you have educated yourself on the proper nudist
perspective and have resolved within yourself that shame and
embarrassment by others are not part of your life. True nudists are
never embarrassed nor go for shock value in front of other people. Part
of the freedom of socialized nudism is not only the freedom of the body
but also freedom of the mind! Without one you cannot have the other.
What if I meet someone at a nudist resort that I know?
If you do meet someone you know, they are there for the same reason
you are, and they will be just as surprised to see you there, and will
think nothing about it. Just remember, there is nothing wrong in being
nude.
How do children fit in at nudist resorts?
Children participate at nudist clubs and resorts as they do in any
other family environment. They are the ones who stand to gain the most
from nude recreation because of the positive influences on their
psychological development. Many mental health professionals agree that
family nudity promotes a healthy self-concept during the formative
years.
Does nudism create sexual arousal?
Being nude is not itself inherently sexual. Nudists at a park or
club are participating in recreational activities. Equating nudism with
sex is a common misconception that may stem from the generally held
belief that people are only nude during bathing and sex. Nudism is
simply about enjoying life naturally and accepting the human body for
what it is.
How accessible are nudist resorts?
Resorts are secure and private. Staff members are careful about who
enters their facilities. It's not easy for a nonmember to show up
unannounced and gain entrance. Thus, if someone seems to be there for
the wrong reasons the resort staff will handle the situation in the
proper fashion.
What if I (a male) get an erection?
This problem occurs far less frequently than you might think. Nude
recreation is not a sexual situation for participants. If you get an
erection at a nude beach or other social nude setting, naturist's
generally yield a bit of elbow room to avoid making you feel
uncomfortable; you should use your judgment to avoid making them feel
uncomfortable. If necessary, take a swim or roll over for a short while
or temporarily cover up with your towel. In any case, just use common
sense and be considerate.
What if I (a female) am menstruating?
Again, this is a natural occurrence and it is one of the realities
of the body with which women have to deal. If a woman is comfortable
with one, a tampon is the simplest method of dealing with that time of
month. If an external conveyance is preferred then she would wear shorts
or bikini bottoms. For the most part, a woman should use what she feels
is less obtrusive for her personally. Others aren't going to notice or
object.
Is Nude Recreation Legal?
Yes, it is perfectly legal in areas designated as nudist resorts,
clothing optional areas and of course nude beaches. Nudist resorts are
legal in every state except Arkansas.
Do
I have to be a member to get into a nudist resort?
No, not at most resorts. Everyone is welcome to visit at any time.
Some resorts have a policy that you must call ahead first. It is wise to
either visit their web site or call first before visiting a club in
order to find out their particular policy.
Must I be nude all of the time if I go to one of
"those places"?
Common sense dictates that when the weather is not conducive to
being nude people should be dressed. Most resorts allow a person to get
undressed at his/her own pace and some are clothing optional. Whispering
Pines is clothing optional except for the hot tub and pool area.
I do not have a "perfect" body. Will people laugh
at me?
Women are particularly enslaved and automatically conditioned to the
American notion of the perfect figure or body. No, nudists do not laugh
at others. They accept you for who you are and not for how you look. We
all have blemishes, scars, and imperfections, and there is no such thing
as a perfect "10". Tall, short, average, overweight, young or old, it
doesn't matter. Genuine nudism is about total body acceptance no matter
the condition. Think of the human body as a package. The package can be
wrapped in gold foil and contain a lump of dirt. Then again the package
can be wrapped in old newsprint and contain a rough-cut diamond. In
other words, it is what is on the inside that counts.
Will people stare at me?
No. Nudists do not have a need, or the desire, to stare at others.
Basically we are all the same and there is nothing to stare at.
Will I feel uncomfortable being around naked
people?
Maybe for the first few minutes, but then you will forget that you
are without clothes. Many people decide to get nude faster than they
planned because they felt uncomfortable being the only clothed person
around.
Are nudist resorts only for single people?
On the contrary. You will find single people, married people,
couples, and many children at nudist parks. They come from all walks of
life, all ethnic origins, all religions, and from all occupations.
However, many resorts unfairly discriminate against single males and/or
impose "gender quotas" against single males while readily admitting
single females with no gender quota. If you are a single male check the
resort's policy before a visit. Whispering Pines does practice "gender
balancing"
If there is nothing wrong with being nude, why has
it been kept a secret so long?
It has not been kept a secret. Social nudism started in the US in
1929. It was brought to the US from Germany where nudism has been
accepted for centuries. Europe has always accepted nudists and thinks
nothing of it. But in the United States where people think they are so
cool and "with it" most are still harboring inhibitions about the nude
human body.
Why
is organized nudism associated with sex?
It isn't, not to genuine nudists. Only those who are not genuine
nudists and those who prefer to remain ignorant on legitimate nudism
view nudity as sexually related. It is very common to assume that men
associate nudity with sex while as many women, if not more, also think
that legitimate organized nudism is associated with sex. Such people
are not genuine nudists.
Isn't it wrong to have kids see you nude?
Why would it be wrong? If it is simple nudity without sexual
connotations, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact it has
been proven that children who are nudists have many less hang-ups about
sexuality and growing up than those who lead a "sheltered" life. If
parents stopped trying to hide simple nudity from their children there
would be a better understanding and more open communication between
parents and children. Too often children are uptight about the changes
taking place within them and are afraid to talk about it because they
feel it is taboo. Seeing each other nude tends to break down those
barriers and makes it easier to speak about one's feelings without fear.
Don't nudist kids experiment a lot seeing others
nude?
No, in fact there is less experimenting in the nudist environment
than in the textile environment because children being raised as nudists
have no need to peek, check others out or to play doctor because they
see it all without having it hidden. The mystery is not there. It is
really a healthy way to raise children. They have more respect for each
other, and for everyone else. They do not snicker or giggle when they
see a nude body like a lot of kids do.
My husband wants me to try it, but I think that he
would spend all of his time looking at other women.
If he wants to try nude recreation with
you, he is proud of you and wants you at his side.
What do I
do if someone "hits" on me? (Woman) Isn't that common?
No, it is not common at all. It rarely happens, and if by chance it
does, all you have to do is report it to the office and steps will be
taken to insure that it does not happen again. That type of behavior is
not tolerated among singles or couples and will cause you to be
permanently evicted.
Do men walk around with erections all of the time like I have heard?
No, that is far from the truth. Erections are very uncommon because
any man that is at the park is there only for the enjoyment of the sun
and fellowship. If by chance a man gets an unexpected erection he will
cover up with a towel, roll over onto his stomach, or otherwise hide it
until it subsides. Any man flaunting an erection will be asked to leave
the grounds and not return.
My wife wants to visit a nudist resort, but I am afraid that I will feel
inferior once she sees all of the other men walking around nude. How do
I handle this?
Everyone is different in some ways, but in most ways we are all the
same. There is no reason to feel inferior because she most likely will
be looking more into the eyes of everyone she sees and will not be
paying attention to other areas. It has been said many, many times that
there is more eye contact at a nudist park than there is in any other
place. Feeling inferior about anything is nothing but emotional
insecurity.
What is the best age to bring children to a nudist type place?
Any age is ideal. Probably the only time that it may be difficult
for some kids is just at the time they are entering puberty. It all
depends on how open you are with your children.
What are the ages that we will see at nudist resorts?
You will find infants to great grandparents. There are first,
second, and even third generation nudists at lots of the resorts. |