Whispering
Pines Nudist Resort
1114 Sun Street
Ocean Isle Beach, NC 28469
888-LUV2TAN
or 910-287-6404
www.whisperingpinesnudistresort.com
Policy And Frequently
Asked Questions
Policy
Behavior at Whispering Pines Nudist Resort is based on common sense, courtesy, and individual respect. These guidelines are a list of good manners practiced in most pleasant social situations.
We look forward to your visit to Whispering Pines Nudist Resort.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does Whispering Pines close
during autumn and winter?
Yes. Whispering Pines is closed from October thru March. Our season is from April thru September.
Is nudity mandatory?
The only area on the property where nudity is required is in the pool and hot
tub area. All other areas are clothing optional.
What
should I bring with me when I visit?
A towel is probably the most important item. It is used for a multitude of
reasons. You should always sit on it whenever you sit on a chair or lounge. This
is not only for personal hygiene, but also out of courtesy to others. You can
use it to cover up with if you get too much sun on your shoulders, to dry off
with after using the pool, sauna, or spa; and to lie on. A pair of sandals or
comfortable casual shoes or thongs for walking, sunscreen, lotion, sunglasses
and of course clothes to wear if it gets cool.
What are the office hours?
9 am - 6 pm Monday thru Thursday
9 am - 10 pm Friday and Saturday
10 am - 4 pm Sunday
When can
I check in?
Check in time is 2 PM and check out time is 12 noon. Arrivals earlier than 2
PM may check in if there is a rental unit, RV space or campsite available.
What is
Nude Recreation?
Nude Recreation is a form of stress relief as well as a fantastic way to
enjoy daily living, holidays, weekends, and vacations. It is also a very good
way to get a "seamless" tan.
Why do
people choose nude recreation?
There are as many different reasons for choosing nude recreation as there
are different types of people and recreational choices. People who enjoy being
nude are diverse in age and profession. Without the restrictions of clothing, we
enjoy a sense of well being while participating in activities like swimming,
hiking, volleyball, boating, tennis, and socializing.
Will I
feel self conscious being nude?
After the first 10 minutes, most people begin to feel very comfortable. In
the friendly, accepting atmosphere of a club you may soon find any self
consciousness melting away. Most people say "I feel so relaxed! I wish I'd done
this years ago."
Is there
any way I can find out if I want to go nude without actually going to a nudist
resort?
Sure. Try walking around your home nude, sleeping in the nude, doing your
housework in the nude. Even watch TV while you are nude. Millions of people do
just those things on a daily basis. Once you feel comfortable then it is time to
try it around other people. There is also a complete guide as well as a short
"test" to determine if you are possible nudist material. See the tutorial on
Guide To Becoming Nudist at http://www.whisperingpinesnudistresort.com/guide.html
Where can I find places to go that I can be legally nude?
There are over 240 nudist resorts in the United States, not counting nude
beaches. For a state by state list of nudist resorts and nude beaches see
Places To Go Nude at http://www.whisperingpinesnudistresort.com/gonude.html
I am a
woman and I have concerns about my safety and other issues. Where can I find
information that will help me?
Women have unique concerns. You can find all the information you will need on
women's concerns at Women's Issues With Nudity at
http://www.whisperingpinesnudistresort.com/women.html and also Not For
Women Only at http://www.whisperingpinesnudistresort.com/noforwomen.html
Is there a woman's perspective on becoming involved in
socialized nudism?
Of course. See "So Your Partner Is Interested In Nudism?"
at http://www.whisperingpinesnudistresort.com/nudism.html
What is
the difference between a naturist and a nudist?
There is little difference in the two terms. Most "nudists" tend to
participate in social nudity via resorts, camps, and other similar settings, and
they tend to practice social nudity for its own sake. "Naturist's" tend to be
more active in their pursuit making sure that clothing-optional recreation is
always available. Some naturist's/nudists do not participate in social nudity,
and some do not have or desire to have any "political" associations with
organized naturist/nudist groups. For a more defined definition of a nudist see
What Is A Nudist? at
http://www.whisperingpinesnudistresort.com/whatisanudist.html
What if I met someone in the
textile world that I had known in a nudist club and he or she informed on me in
front of others? I would be mortified!
We would respectfully suggest that neither one of you are nudists or ever have
been. Both of you just like to idea of walking around without clothes. Lot's of
people do. But if you are that afraid that someone will
embarrass or humiliate you, don't even think about socialized nudism until you
have educated yourself on the proper nudist perspective and have resolved within
yourself that shame and embarrassment by others are not part of your life. True
nudists are never embarrassed nor go for shock value in front of other people.
Part of the freedom of socialized nudism is not only the freedom of the body but
also freedom of the mind! Without one you cannot have the other.
What if I meet someone at a nudist resort that I know?
If you do meet someone you know, they are there for the same reason you are,
and they will be just as surprised to see you there, and will think nothing
about it. Just remember, there is nothing wrong in being nude.
How do
children fit in at nudist resorts?
Children participate at nudist clubs and resorts as they do in any other
family environment. They are the ones who stand to gain the most from nude
recreation because of the positive influences on their psychological
development. Many mental health professionals agree that family nudity promotes
a healthy self-concept during the formative years.
Does
nudism create sexual arousal?
Being nude is not itself inherently sexual. Nudists at a park or club are
participating in recreational activities. Equating nudism with sex is a common
misconception that may stem from the generally held belief that people are only
nude during bathing and sex. Nudism is simply about enjoying life naturally and
accepting the human body for what it is.
How
accessible are nudist resorts?
Resorts are secure and private. Staff members are careful about who enters
their facilities. It's not easy for a nonmember to show up unannounced and gain
entrance. Thus, if someone seems to be there for the wrong reasons the resort
staff will handle the situation in the proper fashion.
What if I
(a male) get an erection?
This problem occurs far less frequently than you might think. Nude
recreation is not a sexual situation for participants. If you get an erection at
a nude beach or other social nude setting, naturist's generally yield a bit of
elbow room to avoid making you feel uncomfortable; you should use your judgment
to avoid making them feel uncomfortable. If necessary, take a swim or roll over
for a short while or temporarily cover up with your towel. In any case, just use
common sense and be considerate.
What if I
(a female) am menstruating?
Again, this is a natural occurrence and it is one of the realities of the
body with which women have to deal. If a woman is comfortable with one, a tampon
is the simplest method of dealing with that time of month. If an external
conveyance is preferred then she would wear shorts or bikini bottoms. For the
most part, a woman should use what she feels is less obtrusive for her
personally. Others aren't going to notice or object.
Is Nude Recreation Legal?
Yes, it is perfectly legal in areas designated as nudist resorts, clothing
optional areas and of course nude beaches. Nudist resorts are legal in every
state except Arkansas.
Do I have
to be a member to get into a nudist resort?
No, not at most resorts. Everyone is welcome to visit at any time. Some
resorts have a policy that you must call ahead first. It is wise to either visit
their web site or call first before visiting a club in order to find out their
particular policy.
Must I be nude all of the time if I go to one of "those
places"?
Common sense dictates that when the weather is not conducive to being nude
people should be dressed. Most resorts allow a person to get undressed at
his/her own pace and some are clothing optional. Whispering Pines is clothing
optional except for the hot tub and pool area.
I do not have a "perfect" body. Will people laugh at me?
Women are particularly enslaved and automatically conditioned to the
American notion of the perfect figure or body. No, nudists do not laugh at
others. They accept you for who you are and not for how you look. We all have
blemishes, scars, and imperfections, and there is no such thing as a perfect
"10". Tall, short, average, overweight, young or old, it doesn't matter. Genuine
nudism is about total body acceptance no matter the condition. Think of the
human body as a package. The package can be wrapped in gold foil and contain a
lump of dirt. Then again the package can be wrapped in old newsprint and contain
a rough-cut diamond. In other words, it is what is on the inside that counts.
Will people stare at me?
No. Nudists do not have a need, or the desire, to stare at others. Basically
we are all the same and there is nothing to stare at.
Will I feel uncomfortable being around naked people?
Maybe for the first few minutes, but then you will forget that you are
without clothes. Many people decide to get nude faster than they planned because
they felt uncomfortable being the only clothed person around.
Are nudist resorts only for single people?
On the contrary. You will find single people, married people, couples, and
many children at nudist parks. They come from all walks of life, all ethnic
origins, all religions, and from all occupations. However, many resorts unfairly
discriminate against single males and/or impose "gender quotas" against single
males while readily admitting single females with no gender quota. If you are a
single male check the resort's policy before a visit. Whispering Pines does
practice "gender balancing"
If there is nothing wrong with being nude, why has it been
kept a secret so long?
It has not been kept a secret. Social nudism started in the US in 1929. It
was brought to the US from Germany where nudism has been accepted for centuries.
Europe has always accepted nudists and thinks nothing of it. But in the United
States where people think they are so cool and "with it" most are still
harboring inhibitions about the nude human body.
Why is
organized nudism associated with sex?
It isn't, not to genuine nudists. Only those who are not genuine nudists and
those who prefer to remain ignorant on legitimate nudism view nudity as sexually
related. It is very common to assume that men associate nudity with sex while as
many women, if not more, also think that legitimate organized nudism is
associated with sex. Such people are not genuine nudists.
Isn't it wrong to have kids see you nude?
Why would it be wrong? If it is simple nudity without sexual connotations,
there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact it has been proven that
children who are nudists have many less hang-ups about sexuality and growing up
than those who lead a "sheltered" life. If parents stopped trying to hide simple
nudity from their children there would be a better understanding and more open
communication between parents and children. Too often children are uptight about
the changes taking place within them and are afraid to talk about it because
they feel it is taboo. Seeing each other nude tends to break down those barriers
and makes it easier to speak about one's feelings without fear.
Don't nudist kids experiment a lot seeing others nude?
No, in fact there is less experimenting in the nudist environment than in
the textile environment because children being raised as nudists have no need to
peek, check others out or to play doctor because they see it all without having
it hidden. The mystery is not there. It is really a healthy way to raise
children. They have more respect for each other, and for everyone else. They do
not snicker or giggle when they see a nude body like a lot of kids do.
My husband wants me to try it, but I think that he would
spend all of his time looking at other women.
If he wants to try nude recreation with you, he
is proud of you and wants you at his side.
What do I do if
someone "hits" on me? (Woman) Isn't that common?
No, it is not common at all. It rarely happens, and if by chance it does,
all you have to do is report it to the office and steps will be taken to insure
that it does not happen again. That type of behavior is not tolerated among
singles or couples and will cause you to be permanently evicted.
Do men walk around with erections all of the time like I have heard?
No, that is far from the truth. Erections are very uncommon because any man
that is at the park is there only for the enjoyment of the sun and fellowship.
If by chance a man gets an unexpected erection he will cover up with a towel,
roll over onto his stomach, or otherwise hide it until it subsides. Any man
flaunting an erection will be asked to leave the grounds and not return.
My wife wants to visit a nudist resort, but I am afraid that I will feel
inferior once she sees all of the other men walking around nude. How do I handle
this?
Everyone is different in some ways, but in most ways we are all the same.
There is no reason to feel inferior because she most likely will be looking more
into the eyes of everyone she sees and will not be paying attention to other
areas. It has been said many, many times that there is more eye contact at a
nudist park than there is in any other place. Feeling inferior about anything is
nothing but emotional insecurity.
What is the best age to bring children to a nudist type place?
Any age is ideal. Probably the only time that it may be difficult for some
kids is just at the time they are entering puberty. It all depends on how open
you are with your children.
What are
the ages that we will see at nudist resorts?
You will find infants to great grandparents. There are first, second, and
even third generation nudists at lots of the resorts.